Friday Favorites #3

LINKS I LOVE

The Multidimensional Poverty Index– a really important tool for assessing development. I really want to learn more about this!

This artist’s drawings of his clients asking him for free work. Just, yes.

Ryan Reynolds tweeting about parenting is all of us. Hilarious. Warning; some language.

This map with WIFI passwords for airports all over the world. The number of times I’ve wished for this to exist….

The Facebook page “Africa, This Is Why I Live Here.” I don’t know how I stumbled on this, but it is both hilarious and gives a good window into Africa life πŸ™‚

I’m laugh-crying this morning at Robin Wright saying that Trump stole all the ideas for House of Cards season 6 πŸ˜‚

This article on flipping the narrative of scary birth stories. Real! I had a scary birth with Halle, and I was really intentional about ready very positive birth stories while pregnant with Shepherd to help myself jump the mental hurdle that birth would always be super hard. My birth with Shep was worlds different!

And speaking of birth- this writeup on the difference between a doula and a midwife, and why your midwife can’t be both. I didn’t get this with Halle but did with Shepherd, and it made a big difference in how I viewed my care.

This lovely and enlightening piece about the work of Fannie Lou Hamer and the creation of food systems in the south to alleviate poverty in the 1960’s. Go girl!

This hilarious and spot-on article, “10 Reasons You Should Be a Missionary.”

Becky Thompson’s (of Scissortail Silk) words to mompreneurs: don’t miss the people in front of you. I have found this to be so true in my business and it’s served me well.

Lara Casey is one of my favorite people. I got an advance copy of her new book, Cultivate, and it’s excellent! You can preorder now and get a TON of bonuses- so worth it!

THINGS IM LOVING

Texas Cup Factory! I love my RTIC cup but these powder coats, y’all…..

Awesome with Alison podcast. I’m addicted. I have a huge crush on Alison and it’s on my bucket list to go to one of her parties. Her podcast is equal parts fun and business/branding advice. Love it!

Listen, I absolutely LOVE my Coach diaper bag (4 years and it still looks brand new) but I am SO crushing on these ergonomic backpack types. And the colors are so good!

Koala Crate. We got one for free with a bundle we got last month, and it’s the cutest! Each box is themed and has games and crafts for your preschooler πŸ™‚

Mario Badescu Facial Spray with Aloe, Herbs, and Rosewater. My favorite for flying and also spraying midday. Cheap and refreshing!

DoTERRA’s Root to Tip Hair Serum. I’m actually using it on my eyebrows to help fill them in, and on my hairline which is receding #postpartumhairlossisreal but this stuff works! My eyebrows are already looking more full!

THE WHOLE 30: My Experience


Ok guys. I finished the Whole 30 yesterday. I’m gonna have a few posts on this in the coming weeks, but I wanna just do a quick stream-of-consciousness and results review while it’s fresh! 

First, what I feel like everyone wants to know right off the bat: I did lose 10.5 pounds. Whole 30 says that you shouldn’t step on a scale for the entire 30 days, but I totally don’t have that much self control, so I can say this: the first 8 pounds came off in the first week. Another 2 came off in the following week, and then I held steady until the last few days of the month, when I dipped again to 10.5. Just in case you’re curious. My clothes fit better (or don’t fit anymore…) and I just feel- lighter? Yes. Lighter. In all the ways.

However, it’s really the non scale victories (NSVs) that I am most grateful for- especially because I didn’t really set out to lose weight (though I’m not complaining). The biggest reason I wanted to do Whole 30 was to feel better- to have less bloating and more energy. And I got it! 

The bloat was gone almost immediately. Though, I will say, I found the published Whole 30 timeline to be very accurate: around day 10-11, you have a period of indigestion and discomfort as your gut rebalances. That was REAL. I felt so gross. But it didn’t take long at all to recover and then feel good again in my gut πŸ˜‰ 

The energy though- that took much longer. I think I was Day 18 or so before I started realizing that I was waking up easily in the morning, with energy (even with getting up multiple times at night with my son) and I wasn’t dying for a nap in the middle of the day. I was able to use my mornings productively- cooking myself breakfast and doing yoga before my daughter would wake, and sometimes even having time for a shower and meditation. I also found that I had the energy to use the kids’ naptimes well- and I even felt like I WANTED to work out. Like I had the energy to burn and my body was craving it! This culminated with me going for my first run in about a year on Day 30- a celebration of sorts. This was really the only legit workout I did during the 30 days save for some morning sun salutations, so the results are really from the diet change. 

I also got into a habit of cooking all of my meals- which I mostly did anyway, by now really is like second nature. Example: I used a bit of coconut milk for dinner last night, and I instinctively threw the leftovers into a Tupperware and made chia pudding for a meal for today. Even though technically, today, I could revert back to toast and peanut butter. But I don’t want to!

I also have gotten in the habit of keeping already prepped food in my fridge- pre-chopped vegetables, already made sauces, a container of caramelized onions. Jen Hatmaker said recently that whole 30 is really about “keeping containers of food in your fridge” and she’s right. I tried to always have 2-3 vegetables ready to roast or throw in a stir fry, and it saved me many times when I was hungry but short on time. I’m now in the habit of chopping up one veggie a day. I always have things ready! 

Perhaps the most surprising thing to me is that I don’t feel a burning desire to add foods back in. Sure, I had hard moments of saying no to freshly baked focaccia or a friends birthday cake, and I had a few days when I really really wanted a beer, but honestly? I have eaten so well in the past 30 days. I don’t miss the food, save for the occasional treat of gelato or a drink to end the day. I think I will mostly continue to eat this way, moving forward. I plan on doing the “slow burn” reintroduction plan, in which you really just reintroduce foods as they become appealing or “worth it” to you. Dairy and legumes I don’t really miss, so I’m going to wait on those…. 

So what are my thoughts about the Whole 30? You should do it! Seriously. If you have ever had an unhealthy relationship with food, or any bad eating habits, or you want to know what’s making you feel tired/sick all day, you should do Whole 30. If you follow the guidelines, you’ll learn how to eat to fuel your body and build good habits for your life! 

*note: I did some specific things because I am breastfeeding to help me be successful, namely doubling the recommended allowance for plated fats and allowing myself snacks as my hunger cues dictated. More in a post next week! 

Friday Favorites #2

 

Welcome back to Friday Favorites, where I get to talk about my fave things from this week and share them with you! What are you loving this week?

FAVE LINKS THIS WEEK:

This article about the need for organizations to shift tactics towards local leadership and equipping local people, rather than bringing in outside solutions. Bravo!!

This is a great write up on toy minimalism and how it fosters more creativity and contentment in our children. I love the idea of toys being well-chosen and thoughtful and versatile! We try to do this as much as we can.

Rwanda is planning to build an amusement park. It’s fine. Another reason to come visit!

Not really a link but….. Choose Joy just announced that their conference will be on the East Coast next year! It’s a dream of mine to go….so if you can, do it!

This is an old article, but worth sharing every Mother’s Day. Be conscious of those who will have a hard time this Sunday, and make a point of celebrating all incarnations of motherhood!

Shauna Niequist started her own podcast and I’m newly addicted to podcasts so this is the best. Woot!

The BowWow Challenge. Y’all. This is hysterical.

I loved reading Tori’s tips on living a Whole30 lifestyle while traveling as a flight attendant. I feel so much better on Whole30 and anticipate my future diet to be fairly similar, so this was great for me!

STUFF I’M LOVING

I started reading Tsh Oxenreider’s new book Β yesterday and it is sooooo good and makes me wanna plan great trips with my kids!

Richard Rohr’s daily meditation emails.Β Β I don’t always get to read them but I’m grateful when I do.

The Happy Hour with Jamie Ivey podcast. So fun, and so many great guests!

Barbra Ignatiev’s artwork. I love her #mermay prints! I have one as my phone background πŸ™‚

Cat and Jack baby sleepers. I am so sad they only go up to 6-9months (at least online) because we are outgrowing them all!

This quiche recipe from goop. Such a staple for my Whole30 (almost done!)

Doterra’s motivate blend. My secret sauce!Β 

Emily Ley’s new planner cover release. Swoon! WHAT TO PICK THIS YEAR?!

Be Still Clothing Company. Can I have all these shirts please?Β 

Sakura Bloom’s collab with Mr.BlueSkye. Have you seen these slings? They are magicalllllll!

Friday Favorites #1

Breastfeeding around the clock has me doing tons of reading but not always a ton of writing! I thought that a fun way to combine the two would be to start a quick “Friday favorites” column, combining my random thoughts for the week and my favorite things/links to share with you as well! It will be mostly stream of consciousness and not taken too seriously…..I hope you enjoy!

FAVE LINKS THIS WEEK:

This article about teaching self-sufficiency in young children. This is a priority in my parenting, and I love seeing what my daughter can accomplish on her own! She’s so proud of herself, too.

Florida passed a bill to allow couples who miscarry/lose babies before 20 weeks the option of a certificate for their baby. This is HUGE in the birth/loss world and I am so grateful that mamas will have the option of this closure.

This feature on Anglicanism from The Gospel Coalition! We are missionaries here in Rwanda with the Anglican church. Though I am new to being Anglican, I do really love the liturgy and how it is saturated in Scripture and grace.

My friend Haley really nails it with her thoughts on perfectionism, parenting, and self care. The struggle is real, y’all, and she doesn’t pull any punches. Taking care of ourselves as parents (not just moms, dads too) is so important to the vitality of our families!

This blunt call-out of the modern church‘s lack of attention to the, well, lack of millenials involved in their midst. It’s harshly written but both the points and the suggestions ring true for me.

This difficult but important read about the statistically MUCH higher infant mortality rates among black communities here in the US. Again, hard to read but very important to be aware of and praying for.

Rwanda just got white rhinos! Akagera is back to being a BIG FIVE park! This is a really big deal πŸ™‚

This amazing cartoon about our defensive instincts and how we should all just chill the heck out. Also about George Washington’s donkey teeth.

This heart-wrenching yet encouraging narrative of the heart of stay-at-home mamas. A great read for all mamas, really. It’s hard work, this kingdom work, but it’s relly important!

Alec Baldwin’s photo being mistakenly run as Donald Trump in a Dominican newspaper. This is bipartisan humor, folks.

LIN-MANUEL MIRANDA WILL BE IN A REBOOT OF MARY POPPINS.

Announcement of Jen Hatmaker’s new book, Of Mess and Moxie! Jen has gotten some heat having some controversial views lately, but she has been and continues to be both an encourager and challenger of mine, and I am grateful to support her in this endeavor. Click above to read the introduction πŸ˜‰

THINGS I LOVE THIS WEEK:

My Lipsense. Forever lipstick forever!
These carved and painted whales. GIMME.
The Moana Soundtrack. Again with the Lin-Manuel.
Rae Dunn Clay. Why didn’t alert me to the cuteness before? Gimme all the coffee mugs!
Lularoe Carly dresses. Even though they spelled KARLI incorrectly.
My new OH SHE GLOWS Cookbook! New cookbooks are a love of mine and hard to find here, so I lucked out. It’s gold!
Norwex EnviroCloth. Because every cleaning product here is all chemicals or costs ALL my money.
My RTIC keep-cool tumbler. I can forget it in my car on an Africa scorcher and still have cold water on return!
LA LA LAND. If you haven’t, just watch it already. Also, LION was amazing!
Apple Music. Because I was still listening to playlists from 2004 and now I know who Chance the Rapper is.
Harry Potter! I’m reading the books for the first time this year, I’m about halfway through Book 4!
Whole30. Because I’m on day 19 and I basically feel invincible.

Tell me, what are you loving this week?

The New / Expecting Mama Gift Guide

 

No surprise- as I sit here with a sleeping 4 month old on my chest, new mamas have a special place in my heart this year! I feel like it’s hard to get these ladies to even think about what they want for themselves, and if they do- a lot of times people are too busy spoiling the baby to notice! So with that in mind, here’s some great companies that are making beautiful things that will bless the new or expecting mama in your life- and a few bonus gifts for baby, too πŸ™‚

Write the Word Journal

I use this every day! I discovered this product early in motherhood and I am so grateful that I did. Each day has a short passage of scripture to write out in your journal and then a space to write your thoughts. It’s just enough guidance to not feel overwhelming, but enough freedom to let each day be what it needs to be. I usually take about 10 minutes or less- very doable during naptime! I love their new themed selection, too.

Carefull Candles

Currently burning as I write! My friend Caroline makes these candles, and they are nontoxic, too! Typically, candles are full of terrible chemicals that can legit make you (and baby) sick, but these not only smell incredible but are totally safe. Our favorite: Balsam and Cedar. We are addicted.

Harry’s Razors

I’m a new convert to Harry’s and I’m never going back! It’s a disposable razor head with a reusable handle. Super affordable, super high quality. If you’re only gonna get to shave your legs once every 2 weeks, might as well do it right, yes?

RTIC cup

Like Yeti but for people on a budget. I live in Africa and my RTIC cup goes with me everywhere, and legit keeps my water cold even if it’s left in my car baking in the African sun! New mamas need to drink lots of water, and this definitely makes it more enjoyable. Bonus: get a pack of fun straws to go with it!

Lularoe Leggings

If you don’t know, now you know. LuLaRoe makes incredibly comfortable and flattering clothes for women in any stage of life. Their leggings are to die for! If you don’t already know a retailer, comment below and I’ll hook you up: I think I know like 30, ha!

Wildbird Sling

I LOVE my Wildbird sling. I’ve tried a TON of different baby carrier options, and the Wildbird is the perfect mix of stylish and functional! They are exceptionally well made and come in a huge variety of trendy but versatile color options. We love our Mallard!

Lipsense Intro Kit

Self care goes right out the window for new mamas. But a little lipstick can work some magic, I tell you! Lipsense has revolutionized my makeup routine: it stays COMPLETELY put for up to 18 hours (and I’ve pushed it further) and it has really healed my lips, too! My sweet SIL sells it, and you can join her FB group here to find out more!

DoTERRA Family Essentials Kit

If you’ve read this blog for even a second, you know that I love essential oils! I was gifted a Family Essentials Kit when I was pregnant with my daughter and I haven’t looked back. It’s changed the way we handle our wellness in our family! If you’d like more information, please email me at karli.vonherbulis@gmail.com! {BONUS: get $50 in free oils in May!}

Dwell + Slumber Gown

I don’t actually own one of these but I’m crushing SO hard on them. Anyone wanna get one for Me? Ha! They are pregnancy dresses and pushing gowns and nursing dresses and nightgowns all in one and they are so beautiful.

Fraiche Interiors

Morgan is the sweetest maker in all the land and she makes incredibly beautiful textiles for babies! Swaddles, hats, nursery sets, boppy covers, you name it- and soooo many different fabrics, it’s hard to pick a favorite. She helped me find the perfect sheep print for when Shepherd was born, and he still sleeps on his organic swaddle every night πŸ™‚

Cuddle and Kind

My new kids stuffed animal obsession, My best friend gifted our kids each a deer form Christmas, and they are obsessed. Halle sleeps with hers each night, and we use Shep’s as a size comparison in his monthly photos! Bonus: each purchase donates 10 meals to hungry children. And could they get any cuter?